Love Inspiration with Pastor Fiefa Micah “Make It Stronger And Better” November 2018 Edition Volume III.
In order to strengthen and grow your marriage, it is important to first know and evaluate how it is doing. It is good to evaluate your marriage/relationship to know how you’re doing in other to maintain focus and be on the right path. Couples or intending partners in relationship are easily filled with high expectations from their spouses nowadays. It is wrong to expect everything in one person; high expectation in marriage/relationship is one of the major causes of divorce in the World today. Do not married or get involved in a relationship with high expectations.
God expects us to leverage our mental energy to bring about ideas that will make us stronger in life and marriage/relationship.
This brings us the topic for today:
MAKE IT STRONGER AND BETTER
Be Best Friends:
As a couple, you started as a friend before engagement and marriage. Stay best friends. Be a safe place for one another to come home and share things with. Confide in each other, have fun with each other, help each other; be one another’s number 1 fan. The scripture says “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work; If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up” – Ecclesiastes 4:9-10
God is a God of grace and understanding beyond what we can fathom. In the same way, we should extend this grace to others. We might not agree with our husband 100% of the time, but it expedient you show him respect. Remember, we are commanded of this: “However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband”. – Ephesians 5:33
Study together and grow together. Study the bible together every day. Learn more about Christ and grow together. Invest in your relationship with each other and most importantly with God. Also, discuss what you are reading and share ideas/revelation together. “This Book of the Law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do according to all that is written in it. For then you will make your way prosperous, and then you will have good success”. – Joshua 1:8
Serve Without Expectations: Marriage isn’t always going to be equal. Some weeks, you might feel like you are carrying 75% of the burden, and some weeks your husband might feel that way. Love isn’t about keeping track of who did the dishes when, or cleaned the house last. These things can come in-between your marriage so quickly. It is easy to become prideful in who did this and who did that. But remember that Christ loves us unconditionally and that is how we are called to love. “Love is not self-seeking…” – 1 Corinthians 13:5 Report this ad.
LOVE TIPS FOR TODAY
- Be open to love and be loved.
- Always give a nice honest compliment.
- Don’t just talk & talk, listen before you speak.
- Respect others opinion.
- Be simply generous with your time & attention.
PRAYER: Dear father, the blessing of the Lord is upon my marriage/relationship, I do not know when heat comes because I am like a tree planted by the rivers of water. I’m getting stronger and better everyday in Jesus mighty name, Amen.
God bless you abundantly
Pastor Fiefa Micah
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