Excellent day People! Love Inspiration with Pastor Fiefa Micah “BE EXCELLENT” October 2018 Edition, Volume IV.
Topic: Be Excellent
A successful marriage requires falling in love many times with the same person. However, it has come to knowledge nowadays that most men and women wants to be loved for a particular reason or falls in love for self benefit. It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages/relationship. Happy is the man who finds a true friend, and far happier is he who finds that true friend in his wife.
HOW TO DEVELOP AN EXCELLENT MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP
ONENESS: Oneness is essentially a strong bond of unity that is built between a man and a woman as they grow in their love, experience and support of each other through the many changing facets of life. Interestingly, when Jesus said that He and His Father were “one” it was the same word used to describe a couple when they become one. Oneness in marriage is best seen as a journey or trip that a couple makes together over a lifetime toward a destination of security, wholeness and freedom and it will be a journey that is never quite fully reached because the couple will always be discovering something new along the way.
COMMITMENT: Making a commitment means agreeing to stay together, as partners, for now and in the future. Personally committed partners see their relationship and their emotional bond as the most important thing in their lives, and stay married because they want to, not out of necessity or a sense of responsibility. It’s a commitment to be willing to do whatever it takes to make the marriage work, and that means there are going to be many times when you’re just not going to get your way but the ability to sacrifice your desire for your partner to make the marriage work is the priority.
BE HUMBLE: Being humble is the act and art of swallowing one’s pride or minimizing one’s ego. To be humble or practice humility means to value other people and their opinions without indulging in self- pride. Humility is the opposite of boastfulness, arrogance and vanity. Humility is intended for a good person who wants to get better. It is important for couples to be humbly and seek guidance from God rather than indulging in self dictatorship. Humility is the secret ingredient to a successful marriage/relationship.
LOVE TIPS FOR THE WEEK
- Learn to communicate always
- Be passionate about your relationship/marriage
- Get committed
- Be true to yourself
- Be out spoken (express yourself)
PRAYER: Dear father, I declare that your wisdom is seen in my actions and heard in my words, I have an excellent spirit, my marriage/ relationship is getting better and better in Jesus name, Amen.
God bless you abundantly
Pastor Fiefa Micah
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